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This Is How You Make A Wedding Plan!

The wedding planning is the most important part in the run-up to your big day. There is a lot involved. Where do you start and when do you actually start? Welcome to the life of a bride-to-be! But all those choices become child’s play and – you will see that you become a real pro, thanks to this article!

When to start with the wedding planning?

The wedding planning, probably you and your love have all kinds of ideas about your wedding. You want to realize that it is a lot of planning and planned. To get some pressure from yourself, it is useful to start planning your wedding about a year in advance. That way you have enough time to arrange everything.

What does it cost to get married?

Yes, we are going to talk about the wedding budget. Whether you have the entire budget on the couch or that you save as much as possible in the run-up to your wedding, the wedding budget is very important in wedding planning. Because let’s be honest, the options that are far beyond your budget are immediately effective. Check with your partner how much you want to spend on which part and use this as a guideline. Keep your budget up-to-date and well-organized!  Then you do not have to worry about that anymore.

Choosing the date

Determine the very first date of your marriage! On what date do you and your lover want to give each other the yes-word and are the most important people available? Choosing a wedding date  can sometimes be complicated. But once the date is fixed, planning can really begin!

The guest list

Who do you want to celebrate your wedding with? For how many people do you organize your marriage? Keep in mind that this can cause a lot of problems, as your ideas may not completely match with regard to guests. It may be an idea to first prepare a guest list separately. After this you can see if you have not forgotten people, or that people may have to be deleted. A reminder for many upcoming bridal couples! Talk well about this.

 

Where do you start?

The main parts of course is, the wedding location, band and photographer. There will be no party without a location, and without the band the environment is not created and a wedding without a wedding photographer is the nightmare of a bride-to-be.  Say goodbye to all the beautiful memories. In addition, they also have an agenda that you book all these things in advance and they are almost fully booked for the coming year. Try to figure out the three largest parts as it stands first in your wedding plan. But do not make hasty decisions and stand 100% behind your choice, it is the most important part of the wedding! Okay after this comes  the wedding dress.

The script for your wedding

Set up a script! With a script it is important that you take into account ‘the five W’s’: who, what, where, why and when? It is best to plan everything around the yes word. First fill in the big lines before you start the details. A script for your wedding is a handy guideline and that way you get a good idea of ​​what the wedding will look like.

Wedding planning from month to month

To give you an idea of ​​all the tasks of the wedding planning, we have drawn up a short checklist! You can find the entire checklist in the planning tools.

Twelve to six months before the wedding

  • Set the wedding date
  • Determine your budget
  • Book the location
  • Book the band
  • Book the photographer
  • Look for your wedding dress !
  • Arrange the wedding transport
  • Make a preliminary guest list
  • Ask a master of ceremonies
  • Ask the witnesses for the marriage
  • Save the wedding planning in your profile!

Do you still need to start the wedding planning or would you like to read this article again? Save the article in your  profile ! So you have all the information about wedding planning at hand.

Organize Wedding That’s How You Start!

Step 1: Date pricking for your wedding

First things first : When will the big day take place? Grab your hubby  by the arm and take it aside for a good consultation. Do you want to get married in a particular season or is the date important? Maybe the day you officially got ‘courtship’, or your lucky number … Just keep in mind the less romantic factors of a date puncture.

Also keep in mind the budget: which date is financially the best? Did you know for example that Saturdays are more expensive? And marrying during the winter months can be cheaper again. Secondly, you have to take into account the timeframe: how long do you think you need to organize your wedding day. Do you still have to save? Discuss together what you think is important.

TIP 1!  It is impossible to take all guests into account, but when planning your wedding date, take into account any important dates of guests who are close to you.

Step 2: Theme and style of the wedding

You do not have to sign up for your wedding yet, but in general it must be clear what you want. Are you going for a big wedding or intimate? In other countries or maybe just close to home? You can also give your wedding a theme if you want. Take a Sunday afternoon and together with your lover create a moodboard to determine the atmosphere of your wedding. This gives you a clear picture and makes it easier to make choices during the further organization.

Step 3: Budget for the wedding

Unless you have hooked a sugar daddy or earn your own baking with money, you will have to consider a budget when you start organizing your wedding. Determine together with your fiancé what you want to give out. Setting up the budget is the easiest part, then the difficult part comes: keep it. Yes, even if that dream dress is € 1000, – more expensive! You will then have to cut back on things that you find less important.

The costs of a wedding also depend on the style in which you are getting married. A ‘farmer wedding’ with a barbecue costs is less than a classic wedding with a five-course dinner in a country house . Go smart with your budget by spending more on the things that really matter to you and save on things that are less important to you.

Step 4: Break through buttons

Many people have trouble making final decisions. Logical, but you will have to put yourself over this. So prick that wedding date, book that location and book directly at the town hall: you can not get enough early. Especially at popular wedding locations, you should not be surprised if they are fully booked every Saturday evening. So start organizing your wedding in good time!

Step 5: Guest list

When you set up the guest list , it is important to keep a few things in mind. How many guests can you invite at the wedding and / or party location? What is the budget? It’s very simple; the more guests, the higher the bill will be. So think carefully with whom you want to share your wedding and turn off your sense of duty. It is your day, so only invite the people you want to celebrate your party with!

Step 6: Invitations

Once the date is fixed and the location and city hall have been booked, it is time to inform everyone. Send a save the date card or e-mail as soon as possible . This card or mail is to ensure that your guests can already hold the date you are getting married in their diary. The real wedding card will follow later! Usually a month or two before the wedding.

Step 7: Staff asked!

When planning your wedding day, you can call in the help of others, for example in the form of master of ceremonies or maid of honor. Especially a master of ceremonies often helps with the planning of the wedding and is also the point of contact for the guests, for example with questions about the wedding gift and the scheduling of acts and speeches. On the day itself, the master of ceremonies ensures that the scenario is monitored and he or she is also the point of contact for the companies that you have enabled, so that you can enjoy the day to the full. Think carefully who wants to assign you which task and ask these people on time!

Witnesses

Who has the honor to take on the role of witness ? Think both who you would like to ask. It does not mean that you necessarily have to ask that one friend because you also witnessed her wedding. Do not obligate yourself to tit for tat!

Bridesmaids

Would you like bridesmaids and / or jonkers at the wedding, make sure you ask them on time. Then you immediately have extra hands during the preparations of your wedding !

Step 8: Legal side of marriage

Before you are allowed to marry, you must first make a declaration of an intended marriage (formerly a marriage ). Contact the municipality for the procedure. The witnesses must be familiar with this part and everyone must have a valid passport or identity card.

Marital conditions

Marital conditions are certainly not just spent on celebrities. First, consider whether this is useful in your situation (for example, if one of you has your own company).

Name

Do you want to change your name when you get married? Then consider which name you want to adopt. Nowadays it happens more and more that the woman keeps her own name.

Step 9: Shop till you drop

Time for fun stuff ! You can look for a wedding photographer , the wedding cake , flowers and last but not least : your outfits! The hunt has been opened to your dream dress .

You will notice that there is a lot to do when planning your wedding. Therefore, do everything step by step, in the right order. It is very tempting to start with the fun things right away. Choosing your wedding dress, wedding cake, honeymoon, etc. But what do you have about an ordered wedding cake if the wedding location has not yet been booked

Step 10: Make a scenario!

If you are busy organizing your wedding, then a script can not be forgotten. This gives a nice overview when something happens.

8 WAYS TO RELAX FOR YOUR WEDDING DAY

You are getting married! Fantastic! Your engagement is a time when you are looking forward to the most beautiful day of your life, but unfortunately this sometimes brings stress, because you want it to be the most beautiful day of your life. Time for some relaxation!

Relaxtip 1. Relative

You think of your wedding, your own real wedding, which you dreamed about since childhood, soon it will really happen and you will get married! You think of your dress, the cake, the bouquet, the guests … and then suddenly an overwhelming feeling. Our tip: to be more relative is here. It is an important day, yes, and it will probably be a very nice day. But it is only a day. You have arranged everything down to the last detail and it is very unlikely that something will go wrong. You have your fiancée and your dear one with you, so what can you do?

Relaxtip 2. Healthy Eating

When you eat unhealthy and do not drink enough, stress is more likely. Maybe you did it all, eat healthy and drink lots of water, perhaps to fit in that dream dress, but another nice extra is that healthy food also has a positive effect on body and mind!

Relaxtip 3. Sleep!

Speaking of health, sufficient sleep is also an important part of this. On average, an adult person would have to sleep about 8 hours a night. In practice this is often not the case and we have to do it with 6 to 7 hours per night. Because stress is less likely to come into play when you are rested, it may be rewarding to take your night’s sleep more seriously. So take care of silence for half an hour before you get silent, subdued light and do not watch TV, iPad or phone screens in this half hour.

 

Tip 4. Keep A Diary

Sometimes your head flows of ideas, worries and everything in between. The urge for overview is then great and sleeping at night is difficult. As far as we are concerned, a diary can help you. Write down your thoughts and it will be out of your mind. Look at your notes the next morning and take action when necessary. Our tip is, to take a small one that you can easily take with you in your handbag, because often you get an idea at the craziest moments, so it is good you take it handy to write it right before you forget it.

Tip 5. Do something different

If at a given moment you can only think about the wedding, it is time for something else. Life goes on, even after the wedding so you do not have to fall into a hole, you also have to do other things during the preparations. For example, go out for a day with a friend, visit your parents, go to work, bake a cake, let the dog out, etc.

Tip 6. Go to a spa

Nothing is more relaxing than a day of wellness or not? Let yourself be massaged because a massage is stress-relieving. Also a wonderful sauna or fine steam bath can help you with the de-stress. And if you are there, pedicure can also be added.

Relaxtip 7. Sports

Sports is not only healthy, it also helps you reduce stress. So you can live in the gym, take a yoga class or take a long walk on the beach.

Relaxtip 8. Enjoy!

Your wedding and the approach to it is an exciting, unforgettable and enjoyable time. You are planning your wedding but it can also think back to your first meeting, how you fell in love and what feeling you gave and still give. A little stress is probably inevitable, but stop at all the beautiful moments and enjoy! Before you know it, you are married!